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Hard won lessons

We entered our 6 month-long hurricane season the other day and all the local news outlets were reminding us what we needed to do.  Useful I suppose as Houston has recently had a major population explosion with people from other parts of the country moving here.

So I guess a word on some lessons learned from hurricanes past is appropriate.  The last hurricane was a bad one.  Over 95% of the city lost power and in some areas power wasn’t restored for a month.  The scale of the physical destruction wasn’t on par with Katrina and New Orleans but Houston is nearly ten times the size of New Orleans and for that alone I think that the destruction involved means that we in Houston know what we are talking about when it comes to hurricanes.

Electricity – It’s not totally necessary but its damn convenient.  We take it so for granted that it’s not really possible to realize all the things that we can’t do without it.  Most power outages last hours, but for major disasters it can go on for days.  During really bad storms even the land line telephone network will go down.  The city will be one huge tangled traffic jam as all the traffic signals will fail and leave motorists relying on common courtesy and yielding the right of way to each other.  Supermarkets will see tons and tons of food spoil and have to throw out it all out.  Well lit streets will become as pitch black as country roads.  Your comfortable home will become a sweltering hot box without any respite from the late Summer heat.  Hope for a short outage but prepare for a long one.

Food – Prepare before the storm.  Stock up on canned foods, shove them into the corner of the pantry, they can stay there for years if necessary.  For your perishable foods, stock up on ice or make your own.  Have a couple small coolers.  The reason for this is that their smaller spaces can keep cool longer than a large refrigerator space.  Although our fridge survived four days keeping cool on the ice we had in there.  Remember that melted ice can be used as drinking or cooking water later on if need be.  If you have any flour or cake mixes or whatever then you can keep busy by baking bread or making cake.  Freeze dried food and military rations?  You really don’t need any of that stuff.  Doesn’t taste all that great and with a little forethought you can do just as well with locally available food

Water –  The electric pumps to the city water mains shut down without electricity and the danger of bacteria seeping into the water supply existed for a couple of days.  Filtered water or water treated with disinfectants tastes nasty.  We had a water filter but luckily didn’t have to use it.  We started the storm with 25 gallons of bottled water and by the time the water was safe to drink again we finished with about 8 gallons.  Fill up the bathtub with water.  Not to drink but to have water to flush the toilets.  Ditch or pool water should be your last option.  Even with filtering or disinfecting I would still advise boiling the water from these sources.

Camp stoves and charcoal –  We used both for cooking.  Camp stoves can stay in the box for years.  Ours did and worked perfectly.  A small keg of gas will keep you cooking for days.  Charcoal is useful for grilling perishable meats.  The smoke is also useful for keeping away pests like mosquitoes.  Cooked perishables will keep longer than raw perishables.  If the electricity goes out for an extended period you will want to eat your perishable foods first.  Don’t forget matches.

Batteries –  Probably best not to buy too long ahead of time or they’ll be dead in the box when you need them.  Buy them at the beginning of August, when the chances of a hurricane in Houston really ramp up.  Buy a lot.  a 16 pack of D or AA or AAA batteries sounds ridiculous till you’re on day 5 of being without power and you need them cause your batteries died.  The traditional sources for batteries will be picked clean of batteries really quickly.  Try dollar stores or large warehouse stores.

Lights – You will need not only a flashlight but some sort of lamp to light rooms.  Flashlights don’t need to be giant spotlights but they should be adequate enough to light up an area that you are working on.  Lamps can be gas or electric-powered but I think you will want to reserve gas for cooking purposes.  Candles are more romantic than practical.  They don’t put out much light, they’re hot on muggy warm evenings,  they leave a mess behind, they are fire hazards.  One of those last option type of items.

Radio –  Get one of those hand powered radios.  preferably with AM/FM/TV/weather band dials and one that has a flashlight and cell phone charger.  They work great, and some give money to the red cross when you buy them.  Listen to the news for updates on what’s going on in the city.  Listen for updates on electric repairs, weather updates, and news on where you can find certain resources.

Money –  Yes this is a tool too.  ATM’s may be out of money or out of power after a disaster and almost no one will be taking credit cards.  Get a lot out.  If you don’t need it you can deposit it later.

Generators –  These can be useful but only if you know how to operate them.  Biggest rule is operate it outdoors.  During the last hurricane, 30 people had to go to the hospital because they almost died breathing in carbon monoxide.  Set it up outside.  With a good-sized generator you can operate your fridge for  a few hours and refreeze the freezer and cool the fridge area.  This can extend your food sources for weeks this way.  If your neighbors can provide fuel you should think about sharing this resource.  Don’t forget motor oil.

Gasoline –  Goes without saying that you should top off your car’s gas tank.  Even if you don’t have a power generator you should still have a spare can of gasoline for general use.  During the last hurricane many gas stations had gasoline but the fuel pumps didn’t work due to the electricity being off.  Again, exercise care in the use and storage of this.

Your car –  Make sure your spare tire is filled up and your tools for changing a flat are there.  Try to park your car in an area that will most likely not flood and hopefully away from trees.  Get an emergency roadside kit for your car and shove it into a corner of your trunk.  You can buy them at Walmart for almost nothing.  During the first day there will be flooded streets, debris on the road, and panicky drivers.  Best to stay off the streets till things settle down.

Communications –  During a crisis the emergency people will commandeer all cell phone voice frequencies so calls from your cell phone will usually not work but text messages will still go through.  Land lines may or may not work.  But you can still keep in contact by text messaging.  If you can somehow get online you can also try social media like Facebook or try utilities like Skype to contact people but make sure you keep your usage to a minimum.  Buy a spare phone battery and charge it up.  Get a car charger too.

Guns – If you’ve never handled them before then this is not the time to start.  The rule about guns is that you only point it at what you intend shooting.  So if you know you could never shoot someone then there’s really no point in getting one.

Neighbors, friends, and family –  They are your ultimate resource.  Share your commodities with them and they will share with you.  They can also be relied on to share news or lend a hand in clearing storm damage.

Price gougers –  Price gouging is defined as raising the price of necessities 20% above per-disaster prices.  Necessities are things like food and water and gasoline.  Things like tennis shoes or cell phones are not covered by this, neither are generators.  During the last storm some guys went out-of-town to buy generators and came back to sell them at double or triple the price.  They will usually set up in a strip mall parking lot and work out of the back of their car.  If a cop wanders by then they usually banish.  These guys deal in cash only and are usually pretty sleazy.

Above all try to keep a positive attitude on the ordeal.  Everyday you wake up is a day closer to getting back to normal.

you don’t deserve a thing

I was writing up a post on conventions in general but current events have taken precedence and I will release that post another day.  Over the weekend another in a seemingly endless series of mass murders took place in California.  A young man injured 13 people and killed 7 including himself in a vengeance rampage that seemed to be fueled by his lack of a love life.

I first heard about this on Monday and the online article that I read linked to his last YouTube video where he explained what he was going to do.  It was a 7 minute long self-pitying rant about how his love life was unsatisfactory and how he had done everything required of him to “get a girl” and how he literally blamed the entire world for what he was now going to do.  He apparently also wrote a 100+ page long manifesto that went into more detail but after hearing his video I felt I didn’t need to hear more.

One thing that struck me is the way he continued to use words like “deserve” or “fair”.  He said that for all his efforts he deserved love and that women were not being fair by denying him that love.  In his mind they were not people.  He in fact refers to them as animals.  To him they were merely prizes to be won if he put in the hard work and effort.  He really didn’t care about their happiness or what they wanted.  All he cared about was his own happiness.

This holds up an uncomfortable mirror up to all the male gender and how we relate to women around us.  Do we really see the women in our lives as equals?  Or do we instead see them at best as second-class citizens and at worst as inanimate objects to be used at our discretion?

What’s particularly troubling is this idea that there is a magic formula for “being loved” and that it’s all a merit based system.  The notion that if you persist enough and do all the right things that eventually you will wear down the woman of your dreams and make her your own, regardless of how she feels about it.  This turns the woman into an objective to be won and conquered and is pure misogyny plain and simple.

In this life you don’t deserve a thing.  You are not guaranteed to get the woman of your dreams, guys.  If you’re going to find that true love of your life then it has to be a two-way street and the attraction has to be mutual.  If it’s not there, then it’s not there and it’s time to move on and get on with your life.

to share is to care?

I recently attended a sci-fi convention over the memorial day weekend.  Comicpalooza took place last weekend and it was a major success.  My next blog post will be partly a summary about that and about conventions in general but I wanted to address a side issue about this last convention before that.

I posted a lot of my activities and a lot of the sights and sounds from the convention to my social circle on Facebook.  At one point I thought to myself that I was posting too much.  I have seen people become obnoxious on social media and post every passing thought and every event that takes place in their lives.  One of my peeves about Twitter is that it seems to encourage that sort of thing.  Not so much on Facebook but it still happens.

Apart from this I have noticed that some people really don’t like it when you post good news or life events.  They tend to feel sadder and find their lives less satisfying. I have a couple of friends that always detail the latest tragedies in their lives and how much worse that they are doing in comparison to everyone else.

When I think about these two categories of people I get self-conscious posting about the good things in my life.  I want to be sensitive to the fact that not everyone is having a good time like I am yet I don’t want to limit myself either.  I thought about this a lot on the first day of the convention and decided I would go ahead and post my updates and here is my reasoning.

Firstly, I post the positive, the good and the interesting things that happen in my life.  I very rarely post the bad.  Now that doesn’t mean that bad things don’t happen in my life.  They do.  In fact bad things have happen to me all the time but they never get mentioned on Facebook.  I don’t really see the point in posting these “micro tragedies”.  Apart from people telling my how sorry they are, they really can’t do much to alleviate the situation.  So I really don’t see the point in doing that.  If it’s something big I will post about it but otherwise it doesn’t get mentioned.

Secondly, posting about things that I do, see, hear, experience lets people who might be far away share a little of that.  If they were curious about a movie, or about steampunk, or rock climbing, or about night life in Houston then they might learn a bit from me.  Maybe they wanted to ask about something but didn’t know how to broach the subject, or they might become emboldened to try something new.  You can never tell what one little thing can lead to.

Lastly, sharing my news encourages others to do the same and lets them explore their own interests.  Marianne Williamson’s quote from “A return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of a Course in Miracles” is quite pertinent to this point.

“There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you… As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

I know that people brag.  I acknowledge that they sometimes get carried away.  We should all strive to be a little more humble in our daily lives.  But at the same time, being a shrinking violet and refusing to share is just as bad if not worse than being a braggart.  In this life we should look to each other and support each other in whatever way we can.

I say that part of that is sharing your gifts, talents, interests, and even good news with each other.

How much farther we still have to go

The current big news is that of the owner of a professional basketball team being recorded making some racist remarks.  He will probably face stiff penalties for his actions.

Last year an actor and popular commentator was overheard making anti-gay remarks and lost his job.  A few weeks ago he did it again on a social media site.

A few years ago a presidential candidate was recorded saying he didn’t care about a large percentage of the American people.  A remark that contributed to his loss in the election.

All of these people have been penalized for their actions.  As these events were widely reported in the media, the expectation is that there will be some sort of sanction for what they have said.  You would think after a couple of examples that people would learn.  But as it continues to happen it makes me seriously wonder how many people are really open minded and don’t pre-judge or hold prejudicial thoughts.

I mean these are all people that are constantly in the limelight.  They are used to being scrutinized and inspected all the time.  They are not ignorant or new to contemporary social trends.  Yet when push comes to shove or when they feel relaxed they easily and naturally go with their prejudicial attitudes.

I have to wonder if these are just the dying spasms of attitudes held by older generations or if this is really symptomatic of attitudes and ideas held by a majority of people in secret.

The year in review

Facebook put out a “year in review” feature.  Anything to generate hits I suppose.

But it is appropriate given the time of year to reflect.  As I’m December born it’s one of the things I always do at this time of year anyways.

I would call the theme of this year “waking up”.  So many things that I’ve held in check for one reason or another have happened this year and are continuing to happen.  I think in some ways the year has forced me to step up and be more proactive.

My father had serious health problems in the Spring and that made me confront the fact that I really couldn’t put off life any longer.  Those plans, ideas, projects that I kept putting off for “one of these days” had to start happening now.

Despite my added responsibilities I have found time to explore the arts and some of my interests.  I’ve found that Houston has a lot to offer and that I can still enjoy it.  I have places and events that I am looking forward to this next year.

I planned and made some home improvements that were desperately needed.  I have others that I hope to execute this coming year and it excites me to think that I am crafting this space to suit my needs and tastes.

I took a vacation that was long overdue and for the most part it went off as planned.  I just don’t have any words as to how much it was needed after the stresses and strains of the last few years.  The time off has given me much-needed relaxation and a chance to reassess my life for the long-term.  I am fervently hoping for another vacation this year.

Of course it wasn’t all good news.  My father’s illness was troubling, I had some health and financial issues of my own.  But I have to take the long-term view about these things.  I can despair and not get anything done or I can meet these challenges head on and do my best.

I feel guardedly optimistic about this coming year.  Being proactive and not waiting for things to happen and instead orchestrating events feels good.  This is the person that I want to be.  This is how life should be.

Jury duty

[Author’s note] – I am writing this early as I won’t be near a laptop when I usually publish.

My friend, Leslie had jury duty today.  She probably handled the experience with more grace than I am apt to when I have to report next month.  Whether you look at it as a privilege or as a chore you probably have noticed that it’s not the most efficient system ever.  You could probably complain to a local law clerk but then they will give you an earful about how they’re doing the best they can.

No doubt that they are.  We have to remember that looking in that it all looks so disorganized and inefficient.  But we have to keep in mind that they have been adapting and modifying the system to work for the last 200 plus years.  The system works well enough for those that work there 5 days a week for the entire year.

On the other hand if you’re dragged away from your home, business, and friends then it’s a useless hassle.

The jury duty pay is a token amount and is a joke really.  I wonder what would happen if it was abolished.  Unless you’re unemployed it nowhere near makes up for the lost wages.  The parking system is antiquated, and the whole process puts jurors in a bad mood.  Is that really what a defense lawyer wants?  A jury in a bad mood?

I have taken five turns at bat doing jury duty.  The one time I served was for an assault case and it took 2 days.  All the other times I was dismissed after wasting an entire morning and part of an afternoon.  My experience has been relatively mild compared to some.

I will still moan and complain of course.  Tis our right after all.

But what other way can we do this?  Do you have any suggestions?

 

 

 

Star struck, well almost

It was a cool Friday evening in April 1993.  I was in the memorial student center (MSC) at Texas A&M in the current periodicals room listening to some music and doing some surveying homework when the student manager announced it was 8PM and they were shutting down.

She swept us all out and I was stuck wondering what to do.  I wandered round the building looking for some empty space to crash and do more homework.  Usually on Friday nights I would go to Rudder auditorium to see a film sponsored by the film society but this week it was booked for some guest speaker.

From the second floor balcony overlooking the main entrance I noticed several well dressed older people were entering the MSC and guessed that the lecture was over and soon the place would fill up with lots of older rich people.  I decided to call it a night and go home.  I took a back staircase away from the crowds and figured I could leave by a side door.  As I stepped onto the main level I came face to face with her.

Margaret Thatcher stood an arm’s length away from me.  She wore a bright blue sequined dress that was nearly as blue as her eyes and was carrying a white handbag.  Without missing a beat or seeming surprised at all she said “Good evening, young man.”  All I could stammer was a “Howdy Ma’am”.

Her security detail wasn’t as cool though.  MI-6, secret service, who knows what they were.  All they knew was that a grungy looking man had just stepped out in front of the ex prime minister with a satchel bag under his arm.  I saw several hands reach into coat pockets all at once.  Luckily they were in a hurry and didn’t bother with me. As quickly as it happened it was over and done.

I was left standing there.  The crowds began reaching the spot where I was.  I was stuck in a crowd of important people who had probably paid a small fortune to hear this woman speak and none of them had been as close to her as I had.  Now I had to figure a way out of there.

This wasn’t the first time that I almost literally ran into someone famous.  A year earlier I was late for class.  I parked next to the football stadium and was running to get to class on time.  I saw an older guy with white hair coming straight at me.  He wore overalls and I guessed that he was maybe a groundskeeper or something.  He was walking and looking down.  All I could think was “Watch where you’re going, jerk!”

He looked up and smiled.  It was coach R.C. Slocum possibly the most famous person within 100 miles, and I had nearly knocked him down.  He walked on to wherever it was he was going leaving me somewhat amazed by the experience.  Then as an afterthought assistant coach Bob Toledo held a door open for me.

Have you ever run into someone rich and/or famous?  What was your impression?