responding to blogs

I probably spend way too much time reading other blogs.

It’s fascinating to see how other people think and I find it special that they’re willing to share those thoughts in a forum where not just they or their friends and family can read but where perfect strangers can come in and read and respond to the writer.

The comment section is where readers can come in and interact with the writer and maybe extend the conversation in ways that not even they thought about.  I think it’s a duty of the reader to respond in a meaningful way.

 

Don’ts

1.  The “me too” response.  Like buttons and favorite buttons exist for a reason.  Use them.  Don’t just parrot what some other reader has already responded with.

2. The grandma or bro response.  I really hate one sentence or one phrase responses.  They’re the equivalent of grandma’s “that’s nice, dearie” or a bro-dude saying “cool story, bro”.  Not just meaningless but downright condescending.

3. The secondary blog.  Something I’m guilty of myself.  Take a look at your response.  If it’s longer than the original post then you should probably should make a blog of your own on your own blog and link it to this other person.  Just rude to steal the spotlight.

4. Straying off topic.  Happy that you’ve had life experience but if it has nothing to do with the topic then it’s meaningless.

 

Do’s

1.  Add something to the dialogue.  Think of this as you having a discussion with the blog writer.  Exchange ideas, make this an interactive experience.

2.  Really try to listen.  Ingest what they’re saying before responding.  Read it over a few times and let it sit for a day or two if necessary.

3. Don’t be shy about maybe being wrong.  You’re here to learn after all.

 

Responding to blogs should be something that you enjoy and that benefits you.  More importantly it’s a way to reach out to another person and to start-up a really meaningful conversation.

 

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